Be beautiful and love every moment of being who you are; there are no guarantees and not every day will be beautiful. You WILL mess up and things will sometimes go south but have faith in yourself and keep going, a positive attitude beings brighter days!
I love natural hair. Long before it gained popularity, I loved it. What I love more than natural hair is a woman’s right to choose how she wears her hair and carry on without fear of judgement. People say that but many do not really mean it.
Your identity needs to be established way before you commit to a hair style that you claim defines you. Define YOURSELF. You gain a better understanding of who you are by taking the time to learn yourself, maintaining your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual health, being true to yourself first and then being true to others. If all of your hair fell out today, I pray that you would still know who you are….no evidence of you as a natural or chemically-altered haired woman.
No matter your journey, relaxed to natural or natural to relaxed, head full of hair to completely bald, maintain your sense of self, first and foremost. And for anyone struggling with a decision, know that as long as you will be the same, genuine person after you make your choice, those who matter most will love you the same and you yourself should love you the same as well.